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I actually do get a few unsolicited requests to create virtual  3D versions based on photos of real women.

To date, every single one of them has been from a guy who is pretending to be that woman online.

I get wanting to be private. I get wanting to only selectively share a part of yourself.

I get wanting to be something else in a forum where everyone is pretending to be something different (e.g. some kind of fantasy or scifi/RPG thing).

I don't understand why a guy wants to pretend to be a "real" woman online.

I'm not judging that. I'm just saying... I don't understand it...

But my tolerance and lack of judgement has a line...

If a guy is pretending to be a woman so he can appear less "threatening" and get closer to other real women online; well that's slimy.

Perhaps there is something even worse though?

The most recent request for a 3D version this person sent me a photo of a beautiful woman holding a piece of paper that says "AFWFAN".

The photo was taken by someone else (you can see both of her hands in the photo, no phone or camera in either).

Even to my naked eye, the photo looks like it could have been photo-shopped very easily...

So I asked for a very specific type of selfie. One set up in such a way that editing the pic would have been much harder.

One that would have in fact been trivially easy to do and, best of all, have no reference within the pic to me or my page.

If it had ever accidentally been seen by anyone there would have been nothing embarrassing or incriminating about it.

No response...

This guy has sent me photos before of this woman. He's even offered to send me "more revealing" photos...

So what's possibly worse than a guy pretending to be a woman for some kind of advantage?

This guy obviously has in his life this beautiful woman, who in turn is sharing her private photos with him.

He even managed to convince her to do a photo holding a sheet of paper for him, which he has then edited it to try and convince me.

And he is taking all these photos of her and sharing them (certainly without her knowledge) with other people online.

...Not...
...Cool...

She is trusting this guy with these photos. It seems pretty unlikely to me that she knows what he is doing with them...

So my final word?

Before you share a photo of yourself with anyone else, ask yourself this?

How well can you really trust that person to keep your private photos private?

How comfortable would you be if anyone else ever saw that photo?

They may share them on purpose or by accident, but if they stop being private then they are no longer private.

Stay safe and be careful people.

Cale
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afwfan
Cale
Artist | Hobbyist | Digital Art
Australia
I am a fan of female wrestling and combat with a specific (narrow?) focus.

You can send me notes here or email me via: afwfan@gmail.com

My pose library is available for free download here: www.sharecg.com/v/69278/view/9…

I update it as it grows.

I use DAZ4.6 and the Genesis v5 Supermodel figures in all my scenes. My poses don't seem to work with Victoria 4. v6 (Genesis 2) works sort of ok, sometimes needs tweaking and expressions don't always come across.

I am on a hiatus for any new commissions right now.

I am not doing this for the money myself. Your payment is you providing proof of a charitable donation.

The rest of my terms are terrible. If we discuss a job in future and you're unhappy with those terms that's 100% ok, you take your business elsewhere and all is cool.

I'm doing this for myself.

- The occasional like or positive comment I get is great.
- Raising a few quid (+$400 USD so far) for good causes is cool
- Corresponding with cool people who share like interests is very cool.
- Getting to actually correspond with some of the real women who partake in my interest is simply awesome.

If you want me to create a virtual version of someone or if by some random chance you are a female model or wrestler (I am one of your fans) please ask.

I'm generally thrilled to oblige.

*HOWEVER* I'll want to be comfortable I'm doing this for the person the image is based on.

This would be a selfie of the person holding a sign with an agreed phrase written on it. Of course obscure some facial details a little bit to ensure the photo isn't misused, but I need to be able to tell the person asking is the one any render I do is based on.

Back to requests and (in future maybe) commissions.

If I don't like yours I'll tell you so and why, but here are some pointers.

I like watching women (and guys) complete in things like MMA, judo and wrestling (more so women obviously, but not mixed matches).

The main criteria is that both women are having a go of it.

For example, DoomMaidens did a recent match of Veve Lane and Rachelle DD.

This is not an even match but both women are unreal beautiful and both of them go at it the whole match with some awesome holds. It's probably my fave of all time.

I do genuinely respect the skill, strength and determination of women who fight and wrestle.

And I in no way mean to diminish what these women do, *especially* not the women who compete in MMA.

It's just that I find watching this to be an incredible turn on. :$

I really dislike seeing unwilling participants be hurt (e.g. "Funniest Home Videos")

It doesn't bother me if a willing participant (who knows what they are in for) feels a bit of pain (I do like "Wipeout" and "Fear Factor").

Bullying and abuse of one person onto an unwilling recipient of any sort makes me ill. When it's being done to a woman by a man it makes me very angry.

I realize that some will find my views contradictory.

I draw the difference between two willing people (women for preference obviously) competing in a combat event (grappling specifically) versus one person simply hurting/bullying another (especially men beating up or hurting women).

So if my tastes are not yours there are people around here (who are more talented than me in any event) who can help you out.

I will not judge. There are no shortage of people who would judge me.

I am into watching two women struggle and fight until one is forced to submit to the other.

But *not* injury.

What I *really* like:

- I really enjoyed the Rousey v Tate matches, but not how the first one ended (legit arm injury).
- Women's MMA, but I'm hoping for the tap out (dislike seeing KO's or just lots of kicks/punches), and I don't like seeing one fighter (male or female) getting beaten to crap.
- I prefer one piece suits or bikinis (and the like)
* Skin tight and showing some skin, but not all of it.
* I don't mind topless, but I prefer at least something left to imagination
* I don't mind judo gi outfits (at all), but prefer a bit less
* One piece suits - Awesome
* Briefs and sports bras type tops - Awesome
- I have *many* favorite female wrestlers; they come in all shapes and sizes
- Most women are genuinely beautiful
* To me the difference between two women is normally like Saville Row vs Armani
* Preferences aside (Italian in my case), I love 'em both.
* I confess a visual preference for a fitter woman (e.g. glamor or swimwear models)
* Within reason - bodybuilders who look like men :(
* "Fashion" models who look like tall skinny men... Urg, go eat something please! Bony bodies are horrible.
- I generally don't like WWE (too fake), I (sometimes) don't mind TNA, I do like Shimmer, AJPW, ARSION, and others.
- There is something about knowing it's worked; Again I don't like seeing injuries
- I confess I am more interested if the wrestlers are more attractive, but not if the match is sloppy garbage (e.g. 98% of WWE).
- I like long drawn out submissions, especially sleepers. I dunno why...

The list of stuff I'm not into and/or dislike is even longer.

Mixed matches (seeing women lose to guys *really* not my thing), unwilling victims being abused, bullied, humiliated, (*AWFUL*) legit injury or harm (I don't want to see it).

On the lighter side I just can't get into seriously fake or badly worked stuff (Golden Girls or Steel Kittens). I don't judge, people would judge me. I'm just saying that no matter how gorgeous the women look if the "wrestling" is terrible I'm embarrassed watching it. If only Belinda Belle had done more videos like the one she did at Video Sports Ltd...

Finally. I believe at all times in the importance of treating others with respect.

*Especially* the women who grapple and are real people regardless of how they dress, or (if we're all lucky) roll on the mats.

So basic courtesy people.

I will certainly do my best to extend that to everyone. If you want to hang around here I'd expect the same of you please.

You can call me Cale (not my name) or afwfan (is my handle).

Please look around. Please let me know when you see something you like. Please let me know if you have some suggestions or tips.

I hope you enjoy your time here. If not my apologies if I've caused any offense.

Cale / afwfan
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:iconjaycrimson3d:
jaycrimson3d Featured By Owner Aug 18, 2014  New member
Cool gallery. Very nice work with all the holds!
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Alexis-Asuka-Rhodes Featured By Owner Jul 10, 2014
Many thanks 4 the watch :D
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afwfan Featured By Owner Aug 13, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Sorry not replying sooner...

Thanks for the awesome cosplays and uploads.

:)
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PhoenixCreed Featured By Owner Jul 10, 2014
Super thanks for the Sharecq! I'm new to the system and your stuff is a great help! 

your work is fantastic! thanks again
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afwfan Featured By Owner Jul 10, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thanks mate.   :)

Can't wait to start seeing some of your uploads here.   :D
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slamm345 Featured By Owner Jun 29, 2014
Thanks for the fave!
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afwfan Featured By Owner Jul 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:)
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44th-Phantome Featured By Owner Jun 13, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Very comprehensive gallery you have. Also, thank you for the watch!
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EclecticNinja Featured By Owner Jun 13, 2014  Student General Artist
thanks for the fav :D
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RacoonCat Featured By Owner Apr 5, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Thanks for the fave.  :D
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